Saturday, February 2, 2013

What Is Cheating? New Study Looks At Different Definitions Of Infidelity

What constitutes cheating?

According to State of Dating in America, a new report released jointly by Christian online dating site ChristianMingle.com and Jewish dating site JDate.com, the definition seems to vary depending on who you ask.

Of the 2,700 U.S. singles surveyed, both genders (95 percent of men and 100 percent of women) agreed that having sex with another person was an act of infidelity -- but there wasn't much else both sexes could agree on. All of the women polled (100 percent) thought that sharing a passionate kiss counted as cheating, but only 86 percent of men felt the same. And though more than 80 percent of women felt that texting or online flirting were unfaithful acts, only 56 percent of men agreed. Men and women also differed when it came to whether or not an emotional relationship constituted as cheating, with 55 percent of men and 77 percent of women deeming emotional connections an infidelity.

Christian and Jewish singles agreed in many of their definitions of cheating. Almost all respondents of both religions -- 99 percent of Christians and 98 percent Jews-- agreed that a passionate kiss is an act of cheating. Roughly the same percentage of Christians and Jews -- 68 percent and 67 percent, respectively -- believe having an emotional relationship counts as cheating.

The main differences between the two religious groups? Forty-four percent of Christians said that watching porn was an act of infidelity, while only 24 percent of Jews agreed. Forty-three percent of Christians thought that going to a strip club constituted cheating, and only 20 percent of Jews thought the same.

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Friday, February 1, 2013

Oregon car-bomber found guilty of terrorism

PORTLAND, Ore. (AP) ? Three hours before they handed down a sentence that could put an Oregon man in prison for life, deliberating jurors sent a note to a trial judge with a question.

Did the man whose fate they were deciding need to have envisioned the specific crime for which he was accused? Or did he merely need to be inclined toward some kind of terroristic act?

Their question more broadly reflects the central debate at the heart of the trial of Mohamed Mohamud, a 21-year-old Somali-American found guilty on Thursday of attempting to bomb a Portland Christmas tree-lighting in November 2010.

Prosecutors were met by a claim of entrapment by Mohamud's defense team, and needed to convince jurors that he was predisposed to terrorism by the time an FBI informant began discussing radical jihad with him over emails.

The judge, Garr King, told jurors Thursday that Mohamud only had to be likely to commit the offense or one like it, and he did not specifically have to be thinking about a bomb at the specific time and place at which he and two undercover FBI agents decided to plant one.

The bomb was a fake, supplied by the agents posing as jihadis.

Jurors were given starkly different portraits of the man who was 17 when the FBI began to focus on him. In the prosecution's description, Mohamud was a powder keg in search of a spark, an angry teenager with the right combination of anti-Western sentiment and a plausible cover story as an Oregon college student.

In the defense's telling, he was confused, broke and suffering under the weight of parental expectations. Gullible and eager to please, he fell into a plot entirely of the FBI's making, following along with men he imagined were like family, Mohamud's attorneys said.

Mohamud sat still as King read the verdict in a slow, deliberate cadence. His parents, who attended every day of the trial, were absent, leaving the seating reserved for family entirely empty throughout the announcement of the verdict.

After the verdict, the FBI asserted again that Mohamud would indeed have found a way to commit a violent act had agents not intervened.

"Mr. Mohamud made a series of choices over a period of several years ? choices that were leading him down a path that would have ended in violence," said Greg Fowler, who leads the FBI office in Portland. "His actions showed little regard for the rights and responsibilities that come with being an American or respect for the lives that he was prepared to take."

Mohamud's attorney, Steve Sady, later said an appeal was being planned after the scheduled May 14 sentencing.

"We are disappointed with the verdict," Sady said. "We, obviously, thought he was entrapped."

Prosecutors argued that Mohamud was predisposed to terrorism as early as 15 years old. Mohamud traded emails with an al-Qaida lieutenant later killed in a drone strike. He also told undercover agents he would pose as a college student while preparing for violent jihad.

Mohamud was never called to testify. Instead, the jurors saw thousands of exhibits and heard hours of testimony from friends, parents, undercover FBI agents and experts in counterterrorism, teenage brain development and the psychology of the Muslim world.

Assistant U.S. Attorney Ethan Knight told the jury earlier this week that the decision would be easy. Mohamud pressed a keypad button on a black Nokia cellphone and intended to kill people. Whatever else they might think about the methods of undercover agents or the government's decision to investigate a teenager, the underlying decision was Mohamud's and the motivation was hatred of the West.

Sady had argued that Mohamud wasn't radicalized by online recruiters or friends with jihadist leanings, but rather by a Justice Department hungry for convictions that ignored every caution sign along the way. Sady said undercover agents manipulated Mohamud's faith and plied him with praise and the promise of a life leading other jihadis.

"This case has been a difficult case for the city of Portland. It's been a particularly difficult case for Mohamed Mohamud's community, for his family, for the Somali community," said Amanda Marshall, U.S. attorney for Oregon. "We are hopeful that this will bring closure and healing to all of us here in Portland."

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Source: http://news.yahoo.com/jury-oregon-car-bomb-suspect-guilty-terrorism-231226058.html

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Nigeria says helicopter strike kills 17 Islamist insurgents

MAIDUGURI, Nigeria (Reuters) - Nigerian security forces used helicopter gunships to destroy a training camp belonging to the Islamist sect Boko Haram in a northeastern forest on Friday, killing 17 of them in a battle, they said.

Lieutenant Colonel Sagir Musa, spokesman for joint military and police forces in northeastern Borno state, said a soldier had also been killed in the firefight, which cast fresh doubt on a ceasefire declared by one Boko Haram commander this week.

Purported Boko Haram commander Sheik Abu Mohammed Ibn Abdulazeez declared a unilateral ceasefire on Monday, urging members to halt attacks that have killed hundreds since the group launched an insurgency against the government in 2009.

But violence by suspected sect members went on unabated, raising doubts about his authority. Gunmen killed at least five police in two attacks in northern Nigeria on Thursday.

"The camp was properly ... fortified and had training facilities, an armory, accommodation, a drug store, kitchen, vehicle holding area, latrine and water points," Musa said.

"The camp was used to conduct training and carry out recent attacks, killings and bombings," he said.

There was no immediate reaction from Boko Haram, whose militants have destabilized Africa's top energy producer and raised fears it could become a base for the operations of al Qaeda-linked Islamist groups in the Sahara.

(Reporting by Ibrahim Mshelizza; Writing by Tim Cocks; Editing by Louise Ireland)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/nigeria-says-17-islamists-insurgents-killed-helicopter-strike-154611214.html

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13 Pygmy Elephants Found Dead in Malaysia

Malaysian authorities have a possible elephant murder mystery on their hands after three more pygmy elephants reportedly were found dead on the island of Borneo Wednesday (Jan. 30).

The grim discovery brings the death toll to 13 this month, and according to the AP, authorities are investigating suspicions that the diminutive elephants were poisoned.

Also called Bornean elephants, these creatures are the most endangered subspecies of Asian elephant. While other male Asian elephants can grow up to 9.8 feet (3 meters), male Bornean elephants grow to less than 8.2 feet (2.5 meters) and they have bigger ears and rounder bellies, according to the conservation organization World Wildlife Fund (WWF).

Researchers initially believed the babyish-looking mammals were the descendents of captive elephants brought to the island a few centuries ago. Other evidence, however, suggests that the pygmy elephants are a genetically distinct subspecies that arrived thousands of years ago during the Pleistocene Epoch by way of a land bridge. There are thought to be just 1,200 of them in Borneo today, mostly concentrated in Sabah, the Malaysian state at the northeastern corner of the island. [Gallery: The Pygmy Elephants of Borneo]

Though it's still unclear who or what might be responsible for the recent spate of elephant deaths, WWF officials noted that the population has been increasingly threatened by habitat fragmentation, and all the corpses reportedly have been found in areas where forests are being transformed into plantations within the Gunung Rara reserve in Sabah.?

"Conversions result in fragmentation of the forests, which in turn results in loss of natural habitat for elephant herds, thus forcing them to find alternative food and space, putting humans and wildlife in direct conflict," environmentalist Dato' Dr Dionysius S K Sharma, executive director of the WWF's Malaysia division, said in a statement. "All conversion approvals need to be reviewed by the Sabah Forestry Department and assessed not purely from commercial, but the endangered species and landscape ecology perspectives."

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Israel attacks arms convoy in Syria, U.S. confiirms

WASHINGTON -- Israeli warplanes struck targets Wednesday outside Damascus,? the Syrian capital,? according to Syrian and Western reports, amid? rising international fear that President Bashar Assad will lose control of his nation?s stockpiles of chemical and advanced weapons.

A Western official who spoke on condition of anonymity said the airstrike hit a truck convoy believed to be carrying antiaircraft weapons for Hezbollah in neighboring Lebanon.? The shipment was thought to have included Russian-made SA-17 missiles, the official said.? If such weapons were obtained by the Lebanese militant group Hezbollah, it could weaken Israel?s regional military power and hinder its ability to launch airstrikes in Lebanon.

Syrian state media, while also reporting an Israreli airstrike, denied that the target was a weapons shipment for Hezbollah, instead claiming that a military research facility and adjacent building had been destroyed. It said two people were killed and five were injured in the dawn attack.
Syria did not say what kind of research took place at the center in Jamraya, northwest of the capital.

Israeli officials declined to comment on the reports. But such a strike would mark Israel?s most aggressive military action in Syria during the nearly two-year uprising against Assad?s rule.

Israeli officials have been sounding alarms in recent days that Syria?s weapons might fall into the hands of militant groups that could use them against Israel. Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu raised that concern during a Cabinet meeting this week and officials have repeatedly said that any transfer of Syria?s dangerous weapons outside the country might trigger a military response.

Israel has tried to steer clear of the Syrian conflict, fearing that any actions it might take, such as supporting opposition forces or launching a military strike, could backfire or become propaganda fodder? for Damascus. Syrian officials have long charged that U.S. and ?Zionist? forces are behind the rebellion against Assad. Each side in the Syrian conflict has portrayed itself as an implacable enemy of Israel.

There is also fear that an Israeli strike could draw others into the Syrian conflict. Iran, Syria?s close ally, said this week that any foreign attack against Syria would be regarded as an attack on Iran.

In addition to chemical weapons, Israeli officials have been particularly worried about Syria?s stockpile of SA-17 antiaircraft missiles.

Israel often refuses to confirm or deny its activities in the region, partly out of a belief its silence might reduce the pressure on its enemies to respond.

In recent weeks, Israelis warned that Assad is losing control over his chemical weapons and that military action might be taken.

Amid the renewed warnings, Israelis living in the northern part of the country near the borders with Syria and Lebanon have been swarming into post offices and other distribution centers to pick up government-issued gas masks.

Israel relocated two of its five Iron Dome missile-interception systems to the northern part of the country, though military officials said the move was not related to fear of impending attacks.

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French troops enter Kidal in northern Mali


French troops have secured the northern Malian town of Kidal, the last rebel stronghold in the region, according to military officials.

Many fear the?fighters, who have reportedly already left the town near the Algerian border, now will?attempt to hide?in the surrounding mountains, only to return and attack the weaker African forces once the French are gone.

Wednesday's?capture of Kidal came just days after French and Malian forces retook two other provincial capitals, Gao and Timbuktu,?earlier this week in a campaign to drive al-Qaeda-linked fighters from Mali's north.

France said the area had?become a safe haven for fighters.

Haminy Belco Maiga, president of the regional assembly of Kidal, said?French troops had met no?resistance.

"The French arrived at 9:30pm aboard four planes, which landed one after another. Afterwards they took the airport and then entered the town, and there was no combat," said Maiga, who had been in touch with people in the town by satellite phone as all the normal phone networks were down.

"The French are patrolling the town and two helicopters are patrolling overhead," he added.

Earlier, French Defence Minister Jean-Yves Le Drian said a sandstorm had delayed the troops from leaving the airport.

"Nobody questions France's rapid deployment but the ability to hold on to the cities and territory is an immense challenge. It is not clear how they will be able to sustain the recent gains,'' said Alex Vines, head of the Africa programme at Chatham House.

"The Islamist extremists have not been defeated; they have melted into the heat haze of the desert.''

Kidal is the capital of a desert region with the same name that the fighters are believed to have retreated to during nearly three weeks of French air?attacks and an advance by hundreds of ground troops.

Winding down

On Tuesday, a secular Tuareg rebel group had asserted that they were in control of Kidal and other small towns in northern Mali. Maiga said those fighters had left Kidal and were at the entry posts on the roads from Gao and Tessalit.

France, began sending in troops, helicopters and warplanes on January 11 to turn the tide after the armed fighters began encroaching on the south, toward the capital.

French and Malian troops seized Gao during the weekend, welcomed by joyous crowds. They took Timbuktu on Monday. The fighters gave up both cities and retreated into the surrounding desert.

France's president said his country's forces would stay in Mali as long as necessary, but the French also have said they expect troops from African nations to take the lead as soon as they are able.

"The French see their role now as winding down," Rowland said. "Their role was to push back the rebel offensive and to retake the key towns - the last part of the mission to hold the territory and to re-establish Mali as a sovereign integral state."

Meanwhile, a group of Chadian soldiers left their temporary?base in Niamey on Wednesday, as their convoy?rolled through the town of Gorou, Niger and towards the?country's northern border to enter Mali.

The troops are part of a larger African force known as?AFISMA, which is due to send more than 8,000 soldiers to?Mali to aid in the country's fight against such groups.

The bulk of the planned African intervention force for Mali is still struggling to get into the country, hampered by shortages of kit and supplies and lack of airlift capacity.

Around 2,000 AFISMA troops are already on the ground to fight the rebels, who have retreated to the rugged northeast mountains of the Adrar des Ifoghas range on the border with Algeria.

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Source: http://www.aljazeera.com/news/africa/2013/01/201313019053271650.html

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Do You Give As Much Thought To Restaurant Workers ... - Firedoglake

There?s little question that the vast majority of restaurant workers in the United States could use a union. On the whole, their jobs offer low pay and few benefits, and employees have little job security. Yet they are also a very difficult group to organize: turnover in the industry is high, the workforce is largely an immigrant one, and employers effectively use threats of deportation and other retaliation against those who speak up.

Over the past decade, the Restaurant Opportunities Centers, now a national organization known as ROC-United, has taken on these challenges. While not a union, ROC-United has brought together 10,000 restaurant workers into an advocacy organization devoted to improving wages and working conditions. In recent years, ROC has expanded beyond New York City and launched affiliates in New Orleans, Miami, Michigan, Chicago, Philadelphia, Los Angeles, and Washington, DC. The organization has deployed a diverse arsenal of tactics?community and workplace mobilization, lawsuits against discrimination and wage theft, high-profile research and reports on the industry, and partnerships with ?high road? restaurant owners?to advance the interests of low-wage workers who have been largely beyond the reach of the traditional labor movement.

Recently, I spoke with ROC-United?s co-founder and co-director, Saru Jayaraman, about how it has been able to use its status as an advocacy organization to develop fresh approaches to defending workers? rights and building alliances in the community. Next month will see the release of Jayaraman?s first book, Beyond the Kitchen Door, which challenges foodies who demand organic, fair-trade, and free-range ingredients in their food to pay just as much attention to the people who do the majority of the work in the restaurants we patronize.

I started by asking Jayaraman about her background and about how ROC got started.

?My background is that I am a child of immigrants from India,? she said. ?I grew up in California, then ended up going back East for law school and graduate school, and I got more and more engaged in immigrant worker issues. Ultimately, after 9/11, I received a phone call from the union that was in Windows On the World, the restaurant at the top of the World Trade Center. They asked if I would start an organization that would initially support the workers who had lost their jobs, and the families of the victims.?

?We started in those early days just helping people get back on their feet. But something happened very shortly after the tragedy, which is that the owner of Windows opened up a new restaurant in Times Square, refused to hire any of his former employees from Windows. The workers felt a lot of moral outrage at that. We organized a protest in front of the new restaurant on opening night. The owner ended up hiring everybody who wanted to work there. That was in 2002.?

?It was on the cover of the Metro Section of The New York Times and got a bunch of other press. Instantly, we were overwhelmed, flooded with calls for help from workers, first all over New York City and then all over the country.?

Jayaraman discussed the conditions in the restaurant industry that soon came to the fore: ?We did some research early on, in those early days,? she said, ?and found we that the restaurant industry really is neck-and-neck with retail as the nation?s largest private sector employer. It has over 10 million workers. An estimated 1 in 10 American workers are employed in the restaurant industry. It?s been one of the fastest growing [sectors of the economy], even during the economic crisis. But it also has 7 of the 10 lowest paying jobs in America. Actually, the two absolute lowest paying jobs in America are restaurant jobs: fast food cooks and dishwashers. Largely due to the power of the National Restaurant Association, which has been named the tenth most powerful lobbying group in Congress, the minimum wage for tipped workers has been stuck at $2.13 at the federal level for the last 21 years.?

I asked Jayaraman about ROC-United?s outreach to different constituencies: food industry employees, customers, and restaurant owners.

?Our whole frame is around collective prosperity, that when workers do better, employers and consumers do better,? she said. ?There?s a role for each of these three stakeholders?for workers, employers and consumers?to work together to improve the industry for everybody in it.?

?With the workers, we?ve now won over 13 workplace justice campaigns against large, high-profile restaurant companies, where we?ve actually changed workplace policies for thousands of workers,? Jayaraman explained. ?With employers, we?ve organized close to 100 responsible employers, high-road employers that are doing the right thing: providing good wages and good working conditions. With consumers, we?ve launched a multi-year, multi-media consumer engagement campaign to build a groundswell of support for the local and federal legislative policy changes that we want to see, particularly raising the minimum wage for tipped workers.?

?I would say one of the most exciting, promising pieces of all of this is the fact that the food movement has been so explosive,? she continued. ?It has reached so many laypeople who would not typically think of themselves as activists or care about labor issues. There?s phenomenal potential to reach a much wider audience of people, people who just care about what they eat and where they eat out.?

?We put out a ROC National Diner?s Guide, for example, with the minimum wage, paid sick days and promotions practices of the 150 most popular restaurants in America. And we created a smartphone app out of the guide. It allows consumers to know these things every time they eat out, to speak up every time they eat out, to send tweets every time they eat out, letting the employer know that they care about these issues.?

?In these ways, like with my book, we?re engaging foodies. We?re getting people to view the connections between small farms and local sourcing and organics and the minimum wage and paid sick days.?

To follow up, I was curious to hear about some more specific examples of how ROC United has mobilized workers.

?Our most recent victory was against Mario Batali, who is considered to be probably the most famous chef in America,? Jayaraman said. ?He has a four-star restaurant in New York called Del Posto. We were approached by a group of bussers and runners from that restaurant, Latino and Bangladeshi employees.?

?We ended up organizing 40 or 50 workers in that restaurant company. After a year-and-a-half campaign, Batali now has agreed to get rid of an abusive chef, create a new promotions policy, and institute paid sick days for all his employees. This is a really big deal for workers in our industry. Batali is actually joining our High-Road Roundtable to promote a different way of doing business and to become a spokesperson on these issues.?

Jayaraman added: ?In other restaurants, we?ve won grievance procedures, job security, promotions, raises, paid sick days, vacation days, holiday time.?

I also wanted to hear more about the consumer piece of the organizing, and I asked if ROC United has called on people to boycott any restaurants.

?We generally don?t do that,? she responded. ?Right now we have a campaign against Darden, which is the world?s largest full-service restaurant company. It owns Olive Garden, Red Lobster, and the Capital Grille Steakhouse. The Capital Grille Steakhouse is the fine-dining segment of the company and that?s where we?ve been organizing. We?ve organized workers in six or seven cities in Capital Grille Steakhouses, and that?s led to a larger campaign against the whole company.?

?But, in that campaign, we?re not asking people to stop eating there. We want people to go in and say things when they eat there, or even when they?re passing by an Olive Garden or Red Lobster. We want them to engage in social media-type activity. We generally don?t do boycotts because we feel like, in our industry, the more effective thing is to actually go in and speak up.?

Jayaraman continued: ?The reason for this is actually connected to the food movement. Over the course of our organizing in the food industry, we?ve seen an incredible thing. About five or six years ago, when Eric Schlosser?s book, Fast Food Nation, came out, and when Michael Pollan?s Omnivore?s Dilemma came out, a consumer-driven movement?totally unorganized?led to a radical transformation. Restaurants across America do now provide locally sourced, organic menu items. It was because consumers started asking if their food was local, if it was organic.?

Jayaraman asked if I watched the show Portlandia. ?There?s an episode in that show where a couple goes into a restaurant and they are really obnoxious,? she said. ?They keep asking the server about the chicken: ?Is it locally-sourced? How is the chicken? How was it treated? Did it have friends??

?It?s really funny, but sometimes we say, ?This is our dream.? If consumers would ask management those type of questions about working conditions, you would see a response. It would become trendy to provide paid sick days and do a little bit better by workers. This is an industry that follows trends.?

?That?s how we ended up launching a multi-year customer engagement campaign. It started in 2008 with us convening the Food Chain Workers? Alliance, which is an alliance of worker organizations along the food chain. It reaches from farm workers all the way up to restaurant workers and grocery store workers. That alliance has been pivotal for bringing all of us together to speak to the food movement. We?re saying, ?Sustainable food has to include sustainable working conditions.? There?s no question about it.?

This diary was cross-posted from Truthout.org.

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